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[Jul. 22nd, 2005|11:28 pm] |
now, obvioulsy, i know the term intercourse. but did you guys know that outercourse was actually a term?
( outercourse from goaskalice.com )
i think from now on i'll use that term if my boyfriend asks if i want to have sex, i'll so.."no baby, not tonight, let's have outercourse" ha!
is this amusing to anyone else? no? |
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| How do you have oral sex? |
[May. 9th, 2005|09:28 am] |
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Hello. I just have a few questions. How do you have oral sex? |
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| suicide |
[Mar. 2nd, 2005|10:18 pm] |
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it seems like all my close friends want to kill themselves. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to say them. |
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| What do i do? |
[Feb. 27th, 2005|12:13 am] |
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I was going out with some dude named wally and 2 weeks ago we broke up...scince then i can't stop thinking about him he broke up w/ me i still love him and can't forget him. It just happened so quickly that i don't even know what happened all i know is that we broke up.
Any ideas on how can i forget him?
its just soooo hard and i really miss him!!! i tried every thing,and nothing can u guys give me advise? |
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| just wanted to know... |
[Feb. 19th, 2005|02:13 pm] |
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This just a general question:
What annoys you the most about the opposite sex ?
And if its okay, I'd like to know what annoys you about your current partner. |
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| stressed and in need of advice |
[Feb. 16th, 2005|09:57 pm] |
So my two best friends are basically Sean and Laura. One night like a month ago, me and sean got really drunk and had sex. It's not like we have a thing or anything, it just happened i guess. Well this past weekend I was really paranoid that I was pregnant, Saturday night I was super stressed. I really only told Laura about it, and I know laura and sean kinda have a thing, but they are like in denial about it. So sunday laura decides to go make out with sean. I totally understand they have a thing for eachother, but was that really the right time? I was super stressed that I might be pregnant with his baby. plus she doesn't even tell me, sean told me. ugh. It's one of those things, she's so sprung, nothing can get in the way of her and him i guess. ahhh. i'm so stressed.
thanks a bunch to anyone who read that! |
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| SO CONFUSED !!WHAT 2 DO? |
[Aug. 14th, 2004|02:13 pm] |
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OK I AM NEW TO THIS SO PLEASE BEAR WITH ME.I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHERE TO START AT.RIGHT NOW I HAVE SO MANY THINGS GOING THROUGH MY HEAD.I'M SO CONFUSED ABOUT CERTAIN SHIT.HERE THE DEAL I'M INVOLVED WITH A MAN THAT I LOVE SO MUCH I MEAN HE IS MY EVERYTHING,HE IS THE AIR I BREATH,THE ONLY PROBLEM IS THAT I DON'T KNOW WHAT OUR FUTURE IS GOING TO BE.WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER OFF AND ON FOR THE LAST 5 YRS,AND HE LOVES ME JUST AS MUCH AS I LOVE HIM,BUT IT SEEMS LIKE WE ARE BOTH CONFUSED ABOUT WHAT WE WANT.WE KNOW THAT WE ARE MADE FOR EACH OTHER AND THAT WE ARE GOING TO GET MARRIED BUT IT JUST SEEMS LIKE RIGHT NOW WE WANT TO DO OUR OWN THING.I DON'T KNOW.HE HAS HIS FEMALE FRIENDS AND I HAVE MY MALE FRIENDS,AND WE ARE COOL WITH THAT AT TIMES BUT THEN THERE ARE THOSE TIMES WERE WE JUST STRAIT TRIP ON EACH OTHER FOR TALKING TO THE OPPOSITE SEX.HE GETS VERY JEALOUS AND SO DO I,BUT IT NOT LIKE WE KEEP ANYTHING FROM EACH OTHER BECAUSE WE DON'T HE TELLS ME EVERYTHING AND I DO THE SAME.WE ARE NOT MESSIN WITH ANY OF THESE PEOPLE SEXUALLY EITHER THEY ARE JUST FRIENDS ,EVEN THOUGH I KNOW THAT THEY ARE JUST HIS FRIENDS I STILL GET PISSED WHEN HE TALKS TO THEM,HE IS THE SAME WAY HE HAS A HARD TIME WITH ME TALKING TO OTHER GUYS,THE ONE THAT HE HAS THE BIGGEST PROBLEM WITH IS ERIK.ERIK IS SOME ONE I MET AROUND THIS TIME LAST YEAR AND HE IS MAD COOL AND ALL BUT HE IS TRYING TO TAKE OUR FRIENDSHIP TO A WHOLE NOTHER LEVEL,HE IS TALKING ABOUT HE LOVES ME AND THATS NOT WHAT I WANT BECAUSE I KNOW WHERE MY HEART IS AND I KNOW WHERE I WANT TO BE,BUT FOR SOME REASON I DON'T WANT TO LET ERIK GO(I DON'T WANT TO NOT HAVE HIM IN MY LIFE)I DON'T KNOW Y BUT I JUST DON'T.THAT WERE ANOTHER PROBLEM IS BETWEEN ME AND MY MAN,HE DON'T LIKE ERIK BECAUSE HE KNOWS THAT ERIK WANTS TO BE WITH ME AND THAT ERIK IS TRYIN TO COME BETWEEN US BUT IN THE SAME BREATH HE CANT TALK BECAUSE HE HAS A EX GIRLFRIEND WHO I CANT STAND TRYING TO COME BETWEEN US AS WELL I DON'T KNOW IT JUST SO MUCH GOING ON RIGHT NOW AND I'M SO CONFUSED I JUST DON'T KNOW .BUT THE ONE THING THAT I DO KNOW IS THAT I LOVE HIM WITH EVERYTHING THAT IS IN ME AND THAT I DO WANT TO BE WITH HIM FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE.WHAT SHOULD I DO?I KNOW THIS SOUNDS CRAZY.LEAVE ME SOME THOUGHTS AND ADVICE.. |
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[Aug. 4th, 2004|04:06 am] |
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Hey, i'm new.
( Love )
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| fantasies |
[Jul. 19th, 2004|11:12 pm] |
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according to netscape.net, these are the top 6 sexual fantasies of women:
Getting it on with a coworker. Women, more than men, are aware that very bad things can happen if you have sex with a coworker. So unless alcohol is involved, they often leave office sex to their imagination. So if you catch a woman staring at her desk, she may not be thinking of a report she has to do, but rather having hot, raunchy sex there with a colleague.
Being watched by a voyeur. Women get off on the idea of being watched, and lusted after, by unknown persons through a window. It's why Alfred Hitchcock's Rear Window was so popular.
Having sex with multiple people. Sometimes in her fantasy they're strangers, sometimes people she knows. Sorry guys. Just because she fantasizes about this doesn't mean she wants to get it on with another woman in reality.
Having random sex with a stranger. In this fantasy, she's walking down the street, and randomly stops to willingly have sex with a tall, dark, unknown man.
Being tied up/tying someone else up. S/M (and fantasizing about s/m) is about playing with power in a relationship.
Being videotaped. Like the voyeur fantasy, she may visualize being caught naked on camera, either knowingly or unknowingly.
hah. ladies? |
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| hook up |
[Jul. 13th, 2004|01:09 pm] |
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| | the girl who stole the eiffel tower - deathray davies | ] |
what do you guys think of the term hooking up?
i hate when people use it because everyone sees hooking up as something different. when someone tells me that they hooked up with someone i usually end up thinking that they had sex with them, but i'm never sure so then i ask and they're like..."OH GOD NO." and then i'm just confused.
how about you guys? |
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| Posession |
[Jun. 29th, 2004|03:26 pm] |
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I need some advice. I fear I might become too possessive for my own good. I haven't done anything but my emotions speak just as loud. When my friends ask about my girlfriend I don't want to give an answer because I feel that theyre being nosy, and I don't ask about their personal lives. But then again I post the things that go on between us. I know I'm hypocritical for that at least. I don't want to my girlfriend associating with my friends ( unless I want to ) but it's not my choice and I feel as though my posessiveness might create some more negative emotions. |
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| Got a problem |
[Jun. 12th, 2004|10:38 pm] |
I'm a young guy, in that age zone that's supposed to be a man's sexual peak. And I'm a pretty healthy guy too. I eat well, I exersize, I haven't had so much as a cold in months. I'm happy with the way my body looks, and girls generally think well of me. As a friend, anyway.
I haven't had a gf in well over two years now. Not sure why, but things could be worse. I'm a pretty good looking guy (or at least, my appearence doesn't frighten small children) so every so often one of my more liberal-thinking friends-who-is-a-girl gets the idea into her head that I'd be fun to mess around with. And that's the situation I'm in now.
That's my situation, now this is my rather humiliating problem: it's not always getting up. And when it does, it doesn't stay up very long. I'm virgin so I don't know this for a fact, but I doubt I could summon up enough vigour to go the distance. My friend-who-is-a-girl hasn't said anything, but she doesn't need to. My performance is barely on par by geriatric standards, and I'm supposed to be at my peak right now.
I am, in short, a semi-impotent virgin.
What determines a man's 'performance'? Is it generally physical health? Should I be worried about my circulation? And how can the problem be my health if I feel in near-perfect health?
I've been feeling a little down (oh good lord I can't believe I wrote that... no pun intended, I swear) lately. I'm living under the same roof as my parents for teh first time in roughly a year, and it seems to be sucking the joie-de-vivre right out of me. But can that really have such a serious effect on me as to make me only vaguely interested in a naked girl in front of me?
Is there some other possible cause I haven't thought of?
Please, I need some support (DAMN! I did it again! I swear to you I'm not doing this on purpose!). Can this really happen to guys my age? Does it mean I'm doomed to die a virgin?
P.S. - I am aware of the existence of Viagra. But I think if someone in my case needs to take Viagra, there's something seriously wrong. |
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| dirty joke. |
[Jun. 6th, 2004|08:33 pm] |
One day a little girl was watching cartoons when a porno came through. The little girl asked her mom "What are they doing?" The girls mom said "Baking a cake."
Then the next day they were walking in the park and there were these people making out and the girl said "Look Mommy they are baking a cake!"
The next day the girl says "Mommy you and Daddy were baking a cake last night."
Her mom replied "How did you know?" The girl said "Because I licked the icing off the sofa!"
What's the sickest/funniest sex joke you ever heard ? Which brings me to my question...*ahem*..how do the members of this community feel about oral sex ? Is it enjoyable for you or the sickest thing you ever done ? |
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| May is National Masturbation Month |
[May. 20th, 2004|04:45 pm] |
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May is National Masturbation Month ! I only realized until yesterday. So enjoy the happiness in self pleasure.
I was at the Virgin Megastore and read this book called The Guide to Gettiing It On. Its something you will want to share with your significant other. |
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| Green M&M experiment |
[May. 20th, 2004|03:48 pm] |
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| | 411 - On my knees | ] |
After reading back through the community i remembered saying that i'd experiment with green M&Ms to see whether they actually are aphrodisiacs or not. Well i'm actually planning on doing it. If anyone would like to participate could they please leave me a comment stating how many they would be willing to eat and i'll PM them shortly with instructions. |
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[May. 7th, 2004|10:22 pm] |
What are some pet names that you have had or given to any of your significant other ?
Its funny to call them something so dumb. Like "Boo Boo Kitty F*ck" or "Nymph". I get called "Perv" alot. |
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| Chocolate is the greatest evil. |
[Apr. 27th, 2004|10:57 pm] |
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This might be essential to this community and I would like everybody to share their thoughts on this. Many females might agree as many males but take into consideration..how much of it is true. Most ? All ? Some ?
Chocolate is God's way of reminding men how inadequate they are. I am vividly confronted with this fact every time my wife and I go out to a restaurant. When it gets to dessert, my wife usually orders the most chocolate-saturated dessert possible: It's the one called 'Unstoppable Double-Fudge Chocolate Mudslide Explosion' or some such thing.
I always wonder why anyone would want to eat anything that promises a catastrophic natural disaster in your mouth.
The dark brown monstrosity arrives at the table, and my wife takes the first bite. Before the fork is even removed from her mouth, a small moan escapes her lips. Her eyes, previously perfectly aligned, first cross slightly and then faze completely, pupils dilating in pure chocolate pleasure before the eyelids clamp down in ecstasy. The hand not holding the fork clenches into a fist and starts pounding the table. The silverware rattles.
After about six minutes of this, she finally manages to swallow the bite, realign her eyes, and take the next shuttle back from whatever transcendental plane she's been visiting. Slowly, her sphere of consciousness expands to include me, her husband, her life-long mate, her presumed partner in all things ecstatic.
'Hey, this is pretty good,' she'll say. 'You want some?'
No, I don't. I want nothing to do with an object that does to my wife in one bite what I've worked for an entire relationship to achieve. It wouldn't do any good, anyway. Men just don't have the same relationship with chocolate that women do. It's not even close. I wandered around the office today and asked men - 'Chocolate. Your thoughts?' - and the result was always the same. First, a confused look as to why they're being asked about something so trivial, and then some lame, obvious statement: 'Uuh... it's brown?'
Ask women the same question, and you get responses like 'The ONLY food group,' 'ESSENTIAL to life as we know it,' and the ultimate casual swipe at every member of the Y-chromosome brigade, 'Better than sex.' Ouch. Some women will try to make up for that last one by quickly adding that chocolate is supposed to be an aphrodisiac. Uh-huh. Chocolate certainly increases desire; problem is the desire is usually for more chocolate. The best a guy can do is buy a box of chocolates and hope he'll be considered somewhere between the cherry truffle and the strawberry nougat.
Don't get me wrong. Guys like chocolate just fine; it's just not essential to life as we know it. Respiration is essential to life as we know it; chocolate is simply one of those nice little bonuses you get. We won't usually pass it up if it's offered, but I don't know too many guys who would get substantially worked up if it were to suddenly disappear from the face of the earth (ironic in a way, as back in the days of the Aztecs, only men were allowed to have the stuff). When I eat a chocolate dessert, I enjoy it, yes. My world view doesn't narrow to include only the plate that it's on.
Maybe we're missing something. On the other hand, we don't have to pick up our silverware from the floor after we're done with our tiramisu.
Life is about trade-offs like that. All I know is that come Valentine's Day, chocolate will be among the things I offer my wife. I can't truly appreciate it, but I can truly appreciate what it does for her. Which is close enough. |
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| some discussion topics for y'all... |
[Apr. 23rd, 2004|04:16 pm] |
They say that the youth generation today are the future so we have move forward into a world were our desicions make the lives of not onlt our own but others to. If that sounds shit basically what are your views on some of the most arguemented topics and the moment?
*Abortion- Should it be allowed, should we all be entitled to it or can only certain cases be allowed?
*Same sex relationships,marriages and adoption- Should we open up to same sex marriages and entitle them to a life like so many other opposite relationships.
*What should the world do about teaching children the basics of sex education? Are they too young? Should they be taught at a younger age?
*Does the world focus too much on the problems of unwanted pregnancy and forget the dangers of of HIV/AIDS?
Please feel free to say how you feel and leave any other ideas for possible topic discussions.
Gem x |
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[Apr. 19th, 2004|08:18 pm] |
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For anyone on my friends list, i did a little spiel on abortion
http://www.caleida.com/~slack/170668.html
if you want to read it, and aren't on my friends list, drop a comment.
and if you're reading this and not a member, JOIN!!!! |
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| Poll # oo2 |
[Apr. 19th, 2004|08:09 pm] |
Based around pregnancy.
If you see it then fill it in :)
Poll #178 #oo2 - Love and Sex poll
Open to: All, results viewable to: AllAge? How many times have you had sex? How many times have you taken the morning after pill? Have you ever been seriously worried you were pregnant? How many pregnancy tests have you done? Have you ever had an abortion? |
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